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Don't smother each other. No one can grow in the...
 
 
| Don't smother each other. No one can grow in the shade. |  
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		 | Name: hilary | 2005-10-27 |  
	   | this an amzing quote that is very close to my heart(L) |  
		 
	  	  
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		 | Name: Cahyono | 2012-11-21 |  
	   | Another awesome thing to do with spgtheati squash is use it as the base for stir-fry!   Throw it in with lots of other veggies and some soy and spices, and you have stir-fry.   It does take a fair amount of soy to season it though, to counteract the slightly-sweet taste. |  
		 
	  	  
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		 | Name: Jerry | 2015-10-02 |  
	   | SanitaA very beautiful story that reastones with me, and I am trying to be respectful to my 3 year old's feelings by letting him cry when it looks like he needs it, offering him hugs (not forcing it), acknowledging his feelings and being there for him. But I am not entirely sure it is working over all. There are many times when I can see that definitely acknowledging his feelings makes him sight in relief while not always stopping the sometimes screaming crying. But I would have expected my son to learn that I can be trusted with big feelings as I let him express them (his dad is more of a no nonsense and  you are alright' guy) and hence if he had them he could/would come to me and say something like  I am tired',  It's hard to do',  I am scared', but it seams that the screaming and every little thing frustrates him is becoming more and more frequent. I must add that he is now 3 years old and has a 4 month old baby brother. And of course I understand that it is hard enough to be a 3 year old never mind learn to live with a baby (he is generally very good with him), but it is enough for him to get into a scream and baby will wake up screaming too and not be able to go back to sleep and cranky for next 2 hours. So I am finding myself telling my son to be quiet and stop crying so much as I shrink inside every time I hear or think a scream will come. But of course then I feel bad/guilty that I am not letting my older son to express his feelings and that he does not get the attention he needs from me. But if I let him cry I cannot give him attention either as then baby cries  And I find it so upsetting to see either of them cry.Sorry for the long reply and many thanks. |  
		 
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